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How to Cope With a Dementia Diagnosis
August 27, 2020
If you or a family member has been diagnosed with dementia you may be filled with a range of emotions. This is absolutely normal and it is important not to dismiss those feelings. However, we are here to help guide you through the process of how to deal with Dementia and find the right care path to suit you and your family.
 
Dementia services and support
There are lots of local services that are available and these can range from home care services to equipment and adaptations for your home. The best thing to do is contact your local hospital consultant or GP for details.
There are a host of charities who can also help with services, information and even support groups and lunch clubs. These include Age UK, Alzheimer’s Society and Dementia UK.

Make a Will and organise your paperwork
Although this is an aspect we don’t like think about, it is really important that a will is prepared now. Although a person with dementia can still make or change a will, your solicitor can guide you through this carefully to ensure the person with dementia is fully protected. You can also discuss the importance of an LPA.
Now is also the time to start ensuring all your important documents can be found easily. It may be important to organise this with your chosen future LPA so they can easily keep your affairs in order if necessary.
You must also inform the DVLA immediately as well as your car insurance company. Here is a useful factsheet for this.

Check your eligibility for benefits
You may be able to claim Personal Independence Payment or Attendance Allowance, your carer may also claim a Carer’s Allowance. Age UK has a useful guide for claiming the right benefits.

Advance Care Planning
Ensuring you have a carefully considered care plan is vital. If you or your family member have recently been diagnosed with dementia, it is important they feel involved in their future care plans.
Understanding the difference between Care Homes, Nursing Homes and Dementia Care Homes is vital. Here is a useful guide on the varying levels of care. We have a very useful blog on how to choose the right care home.
Take a tour of your shortlisted care facilities and think about what your future needs will be. We have a handy checklist of questions to ask on your tours to ensure that you have as much information as possible.

Take Care of Your Health
It is vital to think about your physical health as well as your mental health when you are diagnosed with dementia.
The emotions you are facing will at certain times be overwhelming and it is important to understand that depression is very common for those suffering with dementia. Your GP can guide you through a range of treatments and there are plenty of places to seek help including the Time to Talk service.
Eating a healthy diet is essential and studies show that eating a diet rich in fruit, vegetables and cereals with a low red meat and sugar intake can help reduce dementia risks as well as slow it’s progression.
 Further, a healthy diet is likely to improve your quality of life and prevent other problems such as fatigue, infection risks and muscle strength. Consuming plenty of water is essential in order to prevent increased confusion as well as urinary tract infections and constipation.

Create a life story
One of the things we love to see when residents enter into our dementia facilities is the presence of a memory book which they have created. This book can include pictures, notes, keep sakes from childhood to the present and can serve as a fantastic connection to distant memories. Including a playlist of your favourite music is also a lovely way to ensure your favourite tunes are available for all stages of your life.

Review from A D (Granddaughter of Resident)

Absolutely lovely care home. Staff are always really friendly and helpful. My nan is very well cared for and respected. Often told how she is one of the staff's favourites which is lovely to hear! Very well decorated home right from the reception all the way to the residents' bedrooms and bathrooms. Nothing is ever too much trouble!

Review from A D (Granddaughter of Resident)

Review from K M (Son of Resident)

Mum went to Stratton Court 3 years ago on respite. She quickly made it her home. As her health deteriorated her care needs increased. Mum had a DNR in place and was adamant she did not want to go to the hospital but to spend her last days at Stratton Court. She got her wish and my wife was by her side when she passed. I would like to thank everyone for their outstanding love and care the nursing they gave to Mum. You truly made it her home. We were overwhelmed by all your support.

Review from K M (Son of Resident)

Review from C R (Resident)

The help I had from my carers getting me back to good health was second to none. They are now friends for life, their love and devotion to their job was and is admirable.

Review from C R (Resident)

Review from Susan N (Daughter of Resident)

My mother continues to receive excellent care and attention at Stratton Court. She is very happy, secure and her needs are met by very caring staff. As a family we feel we could not have made a better choice as we know she is in good hands and her health is well maintained and attended to. She is encouraged to be mobile and join in activities and enjoy the company, food and comfortable environment.

Review from Susan N (Daughter of Resident)

Review from Carol W (Daughter of Resident)

A massive thank you to all the staff. What a difference you made not just in my dad's life but ours too. He called it home, which it had become. His every need was met, you all welcomed him and made him feel safe. Nothing was too much trouble. He was fussy with food but you took that on and exceeded his wishes. When I talk to other people about King's Lodge and how happy my dad was. They say what a difference it is to hear so many positive things. I truly appreciate the love and support you gave us as a family when he sadly didn't wake anymore. Manager and Deputy Manager you made him a home with love and support I will always be grateful.

Review from Carol W (Daughter of Resident)

Review from Louise W (Daughter of Resident)

Mum has been at Kings Lodge for 4 years and she is very happy and settled on one of the dementia units. She is so very well looked after by the wonderful caring staff that work so hard looking after the residents. The activities team also do a fabulous job organising so many different entertainers coming in and all the activities for the residents to watch or get involved in. All the staff are so caring, friendly and welcoming and it's so nice to know my mum is safe and being so well looked after by this lovely team. Thank you all so much.

Review from Louise W (Daughter of Resident)

Review from Caire J (Wife of Resident)

My husband went into the lodge for respite care. Our daughter and I visited the lodge it was the unknown and a particular member of staff made us feel so at ease as did all the staff they all said hello. It was a massive step for us all, but all the staff made us all feel so very welcome, another staff member and her team were just fantastic with my husband and I, nothing was too much trouble. She always supported me when I was upset and has been such a strength to us, thank you to her. It has been lovely meeting the other residents to and doing activities, the activity coordinators are amazing. Great fun was had by all. Everyone there at Kings Lodge is just brilliant the kindness and how thought they all are is just amazing, It's great how they remember names too. Always smiling, couldn't have wished for a better place for my husband to have respite. I know that if things change I would choose Kings Lodge as it's so reassuring how lovely the staff are and the caring side of things too. Thank you the managers and all your staff.

Review from Caire J (Wife of Resident)

Review from Clare P (Granddaughter of Resident)

Amazing place for my nan the best thing we ever did was to put my nan into Kings Lodge my nan loves all the staff there they always make her laugh and smile. I visited Kings Lodge to have a look around for my nan, when I got there I was greeted by the staff in reception who are so lovely, I met both of the managers they were also very lovely and made us all feel welcome and made us part of their family. The staff are so happy and friendly and always stop to talk to us ask us how our day has been they all communicate very well. The whole place was clean and smelt really nice and clean also key-coded doors so no one can just walk in and out. Fantastic place.

Review from Clare P (Granddaughter of Resident)

Review from Jay T (Brother of Resident)

From my first contact with making arrangements to secure a place for my Brother at Kings Lodge, I was very impressed. It's beautifully reminded me of a 4-star hotel. My Brother moved in September 24 and he absolutely loved it, and immediately felt at home. The management team and reception staff are exceptional, I was welcomed with every visit with a cup of coffee and a chat if I wanted and always made to feel welcome, I felt part of their family. As for the nurses they were incredible, my Brother was terminally ill and this was to be his final resting place, and I know he wouldn't have wanted to of been anywhere else. My brother was a prickly character but the staff just took it all in their stride, they sat with him and talked when he needed to, sang with him and when he was able, danced with him and when he was nearing the end they held his hand and stayed with him, how beautiful was that. When he passed we all cried together, what kindness and humanity these wonderful staff demonstrated.

Review from Jay T (Brother of Resident)